Relief From Social Anxiety, Conor’s Story
Nothing is permanent in this wicked world — not even our troubles.
— Charlie Chaplin
Knowing your child is hurting and not being able to ‘fix’ things for them is one of the most challenging things I have experienced as a parent.
Meet my son Conor.
Conor suffered with Social Anxiety for many years and even though I was aware and had the tools to help him Conor was not ready for the change. I had to respect that and thankfully (and eventually) at 18 years of age he invited me to step in.
He no longer feels social anxiety and hasn’t for the last three years and he very bravely tells his story in the video above.
I let Conor know yesterday that we would be releasing his video today and asked him what he would like to say to any of you watching. He said ‘If it highlights to anyone feeling anxious that they are not alone and that it can be easy to feel relief when you do the work, then it is definitely worth sharing’.
The modality I used to help Conor get relief is QTT.
I give a full description of what QTT is below and a link at the bottom of the page where you can meet several QTT practitioners that I have trained if you are interested in looking into this incredible modality further and how they can help you.
We would love to hear the impact listening to Conor’s story has on you so please share that with us in the comments below.
What is QTT?
QTT is a unique accredited personal development ‘talking’ modality created by Moira Geary (me) that amalgamates her three unique modalities (Quantum Release, Quantum Alignment and The Behavioural codes) with Coaching and NLP.
The method guides clients to access profound and lasting behavioural change so that they can achieve their desired outcomes in life.
This distinctive approach empowers and supplies clients with a toolkit of techniques, methods and processes for dealing with life’s challenges as well as optimising life’s opportunities. It is very practical and gentle in nature and can be used by anyone seeking change.
What is QTT Used For?
It can also be used for behavioural issues and help with:
Stress management
Procrastination
Overwhelm
Self-sabotage
Worry
Building confidence
Accessing powerful internal resources
Managing difficult relationships
Goal achievement
Achieving potential
Enhancing quality of life
Finding a sense of direction
Enhanced focus and effectiveness
Increasing motivation
Increasing resilience
Changing limiting beliefs
Improving quality of life
Alignment for fulfilling relationships
Obtaining happiness
Achieving a richer more meaningful life
It can be used in any area of life including:
Personal change
Career
Health
Relationships
Communication
Finances
General wellbeing
Spirituality
Business
QTT works on the premise that it is practically impossible to achieve new positive desired outcomes in life while continuing to run the same old disempowering subconscious patterns from our past that got us to where we are in the first place.
With this gentle, practical, fun and powerful ‘talk’ modality the results are both profound and more importantly they sustain.
QTT enhances mental, social and emotional fitness to give you the best possible opportunity in any situation in life.
Working with a QTT practitioner:
Moira has personally trained an amazing community of QTT practitioners who bring clients through the QTT Method (TM) to utilise all the tools, techniques and processes of QTT. This proven method is based on Moira’s extensive research and experience of working with 1-to-1 clients as well as large groups in person and online for over 15 years and it only includes ‘what works’.
The client is guided through a unique process which uncovers and brings into awareness the subconscious patterns, belief systems and other factors that have been holding the client back from what they want to achieve and feel in life. These patterns are the number one thing that are responsible for stopping clients create or achieve the happiness, goals, relationships, career, friendships, money, health, business, lifestyle they desire.
After this ‘uncovering’ part of the process, gentle QTT techniques and methods are carried out which guide the client to render their disempowering patterns as inactive. The QTT method also helps the client replace these patterns with new positive enriching belief systems, confident thought processes and empowering new patterns.
As the name Quantum Thinking Technologies (QTT) suggests we are focusing on the cognitive behaviour of the client. Furthermore, the word Quantum suggests that we are focusing on the ‘smallest’ point in time where the subconscious pattern got set up rather than a big story or painful memories. Once the processes and techniques are used to work on that point in time in a disassociated manner the results are both profound and brisk. This makes QTT an easy, effective and gentle process for the client without having to work through multiple scenarios where the pattern affected them over the years.
After you have watched the video we would love to hear the impact his story had on you has on you so please let share that with us in the comments below and thank you for watching.
Click Here to check out some of our QTT practitioners.
M.x
What a brave young man Conor. I am delighted for you. It’s such a wonderful story, thank you and Moira for sharing.
Much Love
Thank you for taking the time to comment Wilma and yes he is so brave and just delighted he got relief and that it has sustained.
M.x
Conor is so needed to go out there and talk to 1st years in secondary school and 1st years in college .Loved your facial reactions with your son moira ,a normal mother’s action for your loving son .you been so up market in your tools and skills as let you let Conor be a man when he was ready amazing .
What an amazing story. He is a wonderful man. Moira must be one proud mum.
Such a lovely young man to share your story is so profound I have an 18 year old who is struggling and I hope she will engage with a qqt practitioner Thank you so much
Wow, you must be so proud of your beautiful son Moira, what a gorgeous, brave young man to be so open about his very difficult time in the hope that it will help someone else. I would say he’s his mother’s son ❤️❤️❤️
What an incredible young man you are Conor and such an inspiration to everyone of all ages. A great ambassador for the younger generation who have and are going through similar. You are truly incredible. As a mother that is so difficult to watch Moira and how you managed yourself from not jumping in and allowing mother nature to take its course is beyond me. This video will help so many people see their way Conor and know that its temporary and that we can all be given the tools to get through whatever we are going through. You are quite a wonderful person Moira and I am so grateful to you for sharing this video with us. 💖💛💙💜🧡💚❤🐧
Ssuffering terrible anxiety
So many people do Wendy and ti is so important to get help so that you can feel relief.
M.x
Well done Conor. Every school in the country should hear your story through their SPHE Class or parents should hear ye first through the parents councils. Thank you for being so honest. Moira HOW DID YOU HOLD BACK? I’d be gutted and be pushing to fix….I’ve learned SOOO MUCH from this sharing! From my heart to yours. Xx
Well done Conor, so delighted for you that you found freedom and are living your life without the anxiety from the past. You are incredibly brave. You will help so many people sharing your story. So lovely to see the gorgeous bond between you ❤️. Well done Conor 👏.
Thank you so much for sharing. I cried my eyes out watching this. My son had struggled for a long time and all the things Conor said resonates . I don’t know how to hep him and it’s breaking my heart. I would love to know if there is a line you can use with someone over a period of time that may get them to talk to you and ask for help. Thank you so much😌
K first it is important to talk when everyones emotions are not high (just for a more balanced approach) and one thing I have used a lot is the statement ‘you know the way you sometimes feel xxxxxx, just wondering how long do you want to continue to feel that way?’ as that gives people a choice and let them know the possibility of choice exists. Also I sometimes say’ so you know that it is possible not to feel like that any more?’
Hope that helps a bit.
M.x
What a beautiful video to watch. I was so emotional, tears watching it. Having suffered from social anxiety for 20+ years I know how it feels to be free from it. Thanks to Moira. I couldn’t have done it without her. I remember at the time someone asked me what did she do, I said I’ve no idea!!! But it worked, and yes Connor like you said I still get anxious from time to time but it’s a different anxiousness!!!!
Conor it was wonderful watching and listening to your story very brave of you to do so. It will help so many people who watch it. Well done Conor and Moira you must be very proud. Moira you’re a amazing woman with a very special gift. I thank god for the day I walked through your door. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Just beautiful & so heart warming to watch. As a teacher , who witnesses social anxiety daily,I loved listening to your journey Conor.
What an amazing gift you have Moira, and how the magic happens so easily is enlightening. Thanks so much for sharing your story Conor . You & your mom will help so many others, now & always. ❤
Thank you so much to Moira and Conor for sharing your story. This will help so many people. Ye are very kind and brave to share, and I for one really appreciate . Sending lots of love.
What an amazingly powerful film. Thank you, Conor, and Moira. Conor is so courageous, in the way he talks about his anxiety, and experiences, and the words “I’m free”, made me cry. I love the way he wants to help others, and he will help so many, by the making of this film. The beautiful bond between Moira and Conor is palpable. Moira, you’ve given Conor the gift of life, for life. ❤️
thank you conor & moira for sharing this lovely inspiring story!!!!! Such a lovely open honest chat…. so inspiring. Really does give hope to all suffering from anxiety. Brought a tear to my eye!
Thanks Conor for sharing your story
It is just amazing that you are free now and that you can help others out there
It is such a brave thing to do to share your personal journey and the bond between you and Moira ah just lovely
I wish you every success and thanks again for sharing your story.
My goodness what a beautiful story. What a beautiful mother son connection too. Thank you Conor for sharing and I can see you helping others for many years to come. Enjoy your new found freedom. Embrace it all.
Thank you Connor for your honest sharing of our story, no doubt your experience and sharing it will help so many more young people. You are an inspiration. 🙏💞🐧 and thank Moira and the lovely Interviewer. 🙏💞 it was such a lovely uplifting video to watch.
Thank you Moira and Conor for sharing this with everyone. Im certain many people will benefit greatly from hearing it told simply and honestly. Fair play.
Dear Conor,
Thank you so much for sharing your story! My little girl is 12 and has had an escalation in her social anxiety in the past year! I want to fix it like any mother but I know she also needs to be in the right place to hear! I showed her the video but not much of a response! I on the other hand loved it! It has given me hope for Ellie that she will get there 🤞 🙏😊Fiona
Please god she will ask for the help soon Fiona and will get her relief. I know as a Mum it is really hard to watch so stay in the circle.
M.x
What a wonderful story, well done Conor & Moira I’m sure this is going to help a lot more people xx
Dear Conor,
Well done to you to share your story and so glad you are doing so well! You are a brave young man to share your story but I am sure you will give hope to so many others.
Conor is so needed to go out there and talk to 1st years in secondary school and 1st years in college .Loved your facial reactions with your son moira ,a normal mother’s action for your loving son .you been so up market in your tools and skills as let you let Conor be a man when he was ready amazing .
Well what I enjoyed most was how natural and easy the conversation developed between you all. Respect and trust throughout and gently delivered.
Having worked in Mental Health support and delivering Recovery Training I recognise that you have to trust that each person chooses when they want to make life better and reach out for help. Connor was so brilliant at conveying this vital point and Moira how patient to wait until Connor came to you. I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation, well done to Connor who seems to be thriving what a very brave young man.
Thank you Conor and Moira for sharing that. There were tears rolling down my face. Conor is so brave and I’m delighted all has changed for him for the better. It is so lovely to watch that. Well done to you both and also your interviewer, she was so lovely and relaxed. This interview will help so many for sure.
That was so fascinating to watch. Thank you Conor and Moira for so generously sharing this story. Its something that affects so many, and if only they knew something can be done to solve the anxiety. Well done.
Thank you for sharing your story , so brave and inspiring, I love that it was easy to fix and your free from that constant anxiety.Thank you
Thank you Conor and Moira for sharing your story . Just amazing to hear the journey and the wonderful outcome.
Well done Conor, Moira and Sally. What a fantastic story! You must be really proud of him Moira. He was so articulate and gave a brilliant description of how his life was affected before the release. You could almost feel the butterflies he was feeling the way he told it. And then you could feel the release as he proceeded with the story. He is a credit to yourself and Jeff! Thank you for sharing. 💕🙏👏
Conor and Moira that was lovely. Well done both of you.Moira you must be so proud. You have a wonderful son there. I also had Mommy tears listening to ye. Best of luck Conor ,the world is you Oyster. Xx
Conor, what a lovely young man you are. You will give so many young people hope after watching your interview. You should be so proud of yourself. Beautiful interview with Sally and your amazing mom too. Thankyou 💗💗💗
Thank you for that, I’ve tried your technique but without success. I feel anxious about everything but now I’m going to retry the release technique after watching your video. I so want to feel free like Conor.
Thank you 💕
Susan you might need the help of a practitioner if you are finding it difficult to work out the specific pattern.
The link to the practitioners is at the bottom of the blog.
M.x
Thank you Moira. I did try again and I did get some relief as I felt relaxed afterwards and did feel more positive.
Thank you again, you have a wonderful relationship 💕
You are welcome.
M.x
Thank you for sharing. So touching. What a wonderful video. Easy to relate to and very inspiring.
Wow, and thank you for sharing your story. I was there last year during that event and it has always stayed with me. Conor, you’re an absolute role model for others, young and old. My son’s name is also Conor, he is 12 and is exhibiting levels of anxiety so this story is especially poignant to me. Moira, I’ve admired you as a mentor and teacher since I was first introduced to your work but I must say you are one impressive mother as well. Wow which is Mom upside down (I’m American so it works!!!)
Felt so emotional listening to the interview unfold. It was so sincere and honest. Each of the 3 of you spoke with such respect and depth, and of course Conor you are a hero as you have shown that there is HOPE for those that are ready to take the next step.
Am still watching my 20 year old daughter suffer since 1st year but she just isn’t ready for the release. Asked her to watch video with me but she said some other time, and I have no doubt that time will come.
Huge respect for Conor in sharing his story and wanting to help others to escape the prison of anxiety. Great credit is due to you all for this heartfelt interview. Thank you Conor and Moira for sharing, and wishing Conor every success with his future 💕
Well done Conor & congratulations on achieving your new life free from social anxiety To see the care & love of mother & son is beautiful .thank you for sharing .
Great interview in a relaxed & calm way .
Wish you all continued success x
Thank you for sharing your storey Conor & Moira. Im struggling to figure out why we make it so hard for ourselves. I get that we have to be in the right frame of mind to accept the help but the journey to that point is so difficult for everyone. Ive no doubt Conors story will help others so well done Conor for being so brave and bold! Best of luck going forward.
Conor your very brave for telling your story. So happy you’re free from your anxiety. Thank you for sharing your story your lucky to have a mum like Moira who gave you the help and support you needed as lots of us know anxiety is not easy.
Conor is very grateful for you comment Sharon and yes anxiety is not easy.
M.x
Beautiful story and so important to share. I am sure it will help many others understand their struggle and discover that they too can have the beautiful life they deserve ❤️
Well done Conor!
Exactly Monika it is important to give people hope.
M.x
Wow, you must be so proud of your beautiful son Moira, what a gorgeous, brave young man to be so open about his very difficult time in the hope that it will help someone else. I would say he’s his mother’s son. Thank you both for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Jacinta and yes I am very proud of him.
M.x
Thank you for sharing Conor & Moira. This is truly inspirational for others and will give many more people the courage and knowledge to accept and address issues of anxiety with comfort & ease. Well done.
Evelyn
As Conor says if it helps just one person to find relief it is worth it Evelyn.
M.x
Beautiful interview thank you Conor for sharing your journey it will help lots of people ❤❤
Thank you Anne.
M.x
Well done Conor! My son who is 14 is socially anxious .hes always been at a disadvantage as was born premature 12 weeks early .. not really got proper friends. Just online friends and have had interventions for him but just keep encouraging and boosting his confidence 🙂
I really enjoyed your interview Conor. You speak with such confidence and honesty. I’m sure many people who live with social anxiety would get great comfort and hope from your willingness to share your experience. I wish you the very best for a great future x
Thank you, Conor – there’s a lot of bravery to acknowledge the feelings you had in the first place and then approach your Mum (it takes strength to sometimes even see hope and you found it within you there and then) and thank you for sharing your experience – I’m so so super delighted that you feel free from those feelings that you described so well. Moira, I can only imagine how hard it was for you throughout years and the respect you had for him to get ready and make a decision is definitely something to admire! Absolutely amazed by your love, patience and professionalism ❤ All the best to both of you and your wonderful family ❤
Very moving and inspiring story
Conor THANKYOU.❤️
So many never seek and are given the support to explore and finally be free. Your bravery is commendable and your sharing can help so many more.
Thank you Conor for sharing your experience. I know of so many people that this will help. By doing this you have given hope to so many. Take lots of care. Clare
Such a beautiful interview to watch. Well done Conor & Moira on such an honest & open conversation. Isn’t it incredible how someone can be freed from such pain and be able to live the life of happiness and freedom like they deserve. Conor i think you’ll be able to help so many others as you can relate so well having felt that way yourself. Moira I have a feeling you have someone walking in your footsteps. 😉